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China - Everything you need to know
about Chinese culture, etiquette, protocol, visiting, doing business and
communicating in or with China.
Written by Michael Hanna © July
2012
Are you really prepared for 2012?
I was born in Hong Kong and I know that there are many protocols, values
and traditions that the Chinese hold close and since I still travel a
lot in Asia on Feng Shui consultations and teaching I thought I would
share with you common mistakes that many foreigners make whilst either
visiting or doing business in or with China. China is known as a state
of etiquette, custom, respect and ceremony. To understand the Chinese,
some consideration to their way of life should not be ignored:
Chinese Society & Culture
The Importance of keeping Face:
Roughly translated as 'good reputation', 'respect' or 'honour,' one must
learn the details of the concept and understand the possible impact it
could have on your doing business in China and many other Asian countries.
The concept of 'face' roughly translates as 'honour', 'good reputation'
or 'respect'.
There are four types of 'face':
- Diu-mian-zi: this is when one's actions or deeds have been
exposed to people.
- Gei-mian-zi: involves the giving of face to others through
showing respect.
- Liu-mian-zi: this is developed by avoiding mistakes and showing
wisdom in action.
- Jiang-mian-zi: this is when face is increased through others,
i.e. someone complementing you to an associate.
It is critical that you give face, save face and show face when doing
business in China.
Confucianism
Confucianism is a system of behaviours and principles that stress the
obligations of people towards one another based upon their relationship.
The basic system of belief is based upon five different relationships:
Ruler and subject
Husband and wife
Parents and children
Brothers and sisters
Friend and friend
Confucianism stresses duty, sincerity, loyalty, honour, respect for age
and seniority. Through maintaining harmonious relations as individuals,
society itself becomes stable. The founder, Confucius is a Chinese philosopher
(551 ~ 479 BC) who taught morality, loyalty and strict social relationships.
Confucianism especially accentuates social relationship codes between
the young and the old, men and women, the royal and the common people.
Non Verbal Communication
- The Chinese' Non-verbal communication speaks volumes.
- Since the Chinese strive for harmony and are group dependent, they
rely on facial expression, tone of voice and posture to tell them
what someone feels.
- Frowning while someone is speaking is interpreted as a sign of disagreement.
Therefore, most Chinese maintain an impassive expression when speaking.
- It is considered disrespectful to stare into another person's eyes.
In crowded situations the Chinese avoid eye contact to give themselves
privacy.
General Etiquette and Protocol Guidelines:
Meeting Etiquette
- Normally greetings are formal and the eldest person is always greeted
first.
- A good strong handshake is the most common form of greeting with
foreigners with less formal greetings with a slight bow or nod of
the head.
- Many older Chinese will look to the ground when greeting someone.
- Address the person by a respectful title and their surname. If
they want to move to a first name basis, they will advise you which
name to use.
- The Chinese have a wonderful sense of humour.
Gift Giving Etiquette:
Generous gift giving is a significant part of Chinese culture in the
past. Nowadays in business, official policy in Chinese business culture
forbids giving gifts; this gesture is considered bribery, an illegal act
in this country, so if you are giving gifts to a government official please
be very careful.
You may find your gift declined, although these days' times have relaxed
more and you will find that the Chinese will decline a gift three times
before finally accepting, so they do not appear greedy so you will have
to continue to insist. You will be expected to go through the same routine
if you are offered a gift.
It is appropriate to bring a gift that is representative of your country,
town or region, to a business meeting or social event. A gift should always
be wrapped but please read the list below of acceptable and unacceptable
gifts, this is very important. Always present the gift with both hands
as a sign of courtesy and always mention that this is only a small token
of appreciation. Do not expect your gift to be opened in your presence.
A very auspicious gift to give is a pair of Fu
Dogs; these are protection animals and a very thoughtful gift. Fu
Dogs are an extremely powerful protection for a home or business; you
will find most homes or business in China complemented by a pair either
inside or outside. They come in all shapes and sizes and some of the homes
I have visited all over the world display some of the most magnificent
pairs I have seen especially the ones in Asia. Probably the most impressive
are from the Beijing's Forbidden City, these are really amazing to see.
If you follow this link you will find more
details on Fu Dogs and the correct way to display them which is very important.
- In general, gifts are given at Chinese New Year, weddings, births
and birthdays.
- The Chinese love food and a food basket will always make a nice
gift. ·
- Never give scissors, letter openers, knives or other cutting tools
as they indicate the cutting of a relationship.
- Do not give clocks, white handkerchiefs, a stork or crane or straw
sandals as they are associated with funerals and death. The word for
clock in Chinese sounds similar to the expression 'the end of life'
and should never be given as a gift.
- Do not give flowers, as many Chinese associate these with death.
- Do not wrap gifts in white, blue or black paper.
- Give gifts of money in a red envelope called Ang
Pow red envelopes also known as "red packets" "Ang Pow" "laisee"
"lai see" "hung bao" or "Hung-Bao". They are considered extremely
auspicious to receive as a gift and even more auspicious if they contain
money. They are commonly used for Chinese New Year, weddings, birthdays
or any other important event.
- Always present gifts with two hands.
- Never present a valuable gift to one person In the presence of other
people. This gesture will cause embarrassment, and possibly even problems
for the recipient, given the strict rules against bribery in Chinese
business culture.
- Gifts are not opened when received.
- Gifts may be refused three times before they are accepted. Each
time it's refused, you as the giver must graciously continue to offer
the gift. And once it's taken, tell the person you're happy it's been
accepted.
- The gift is offered using both hands and must be gift-wrapped; though
it won't be opened it front of you. It will be set aside and opened
later. This tradition eliminates any concern that the recipient's
face might show any disappointment with the gift.
- If you're presented a gift, follow the same process of refusing
it three times then accept it with both hands. You'll also not open
it, but wait until later.
- Never give a pen with red ink as a gift as it indicates severing
of relationships.
- Four is an unlucky number so do not give four of anything. Eight
is the luckiest number, so giving eight of something brings luck to
the recipient and considered very auspicious.
- Giving a talisman to hang beside a main door is considered very
lucky to the Chinese, if you click on the picture below you will find
more details on talismans, couplets and
the Kitchen God.
Dining Etiquette:
I love eating in China and most other Asian countries, it is an event
and if you are being entertained by a local the experience is so much
better. On my Feng Shui travels around the world regardless of what city
you are in, the restaurants are very commercial and never a true reflection
of what the local food is like, on a recent Feng Shui consultation in
Barcelona I was visiting an old client of mine who has lived in Spain
for seven years (emigrated from UK) and even he struggled to find a traditional
Spanish restaurant that served a good paella, I wish I had not asked for
one as it caused embarrassment for him. The next night we ended up in
his local restaurant that was very basic but served the best quality food.
- The Chinese prefer to entertain in public places rather than in
their homes, especially when entertaining foreigners.
- If you are invited to their house, consider it a great honour. If
you must turn down such an honour, it is considered polite to explain
the conflict in your schedule so that your actions are not taken as
a slight.
- Arrive on time.
- Remove your shoes before entering the house.
- Bring a small gift but bear in main the list above of offensive
gifts.
- Eat well to demonstrate that you are enjoying the food and do not
eat all of your meal. If you eat all of your meal, the Chinese will
assume you did not receive enough food and are still hungry.
Table manners:
- Learn to use chopsticks.
- Wait to be told where to sit. The guest of honour is normally given
a seat facing the door.
- The host begins eating first.
- You should try everything that is offered to you.
- Never eat the last piece from the serving tray.
- Be observant to other peoples' needs.
- Chopsticks should be returned to the chopstick rest after every
few bites and when you drink or stop to speak.
- The host offers the first toast.
- Do not put bones in your bowl. Place them on the table or in a special
bowl for that purpose.
- Hold the rice bowl close to your mouth while eating.
- Do not be offended if a Chinese person makes slurping or belching
sounds; it merely indicates that they are enjoying their food.
- Never place your chopsticks straight up in your bowl. By placing
your sticks upright in your bowl your will remind your host of joss
sticks which connotes death.
- Do not drop the chopsticks it is considered bad luck.
Tipping Etiquette:
Tipping is becoming more commonplace, especially with younger workers
although older workers still consider it an insult. Different parts of
Asia have different rules, in Singapore generally you do not tip at all
whereas in Malaysia it is consider rude not too.
Business Etiquette Basics
Relationships & Communication:
It is imperative when opening your greeting for the most senior person
to introduce themselves and then the next senior person, working down
the rank in your company. Even when Chinese people visit Western countries,
they will mostly walk in the room with the most senior person leading
the party. This custom is a matter of respect; this word is probably the
most important in Chinese culture.
- The Chinese don't like doing business with companies they don't
know, so working through a go-between is crucial. This could be an
individual or an organization that can make a formal introduction
and vouch for the reliability of your company.
- Before arriving in China send materials (written in Chinese) that
describe your company, its history, and literature about your products
and services.
- The Chinese often use intermediaries to ask questions that they
would prefer not to make directly.
- Business relationships are built formally after the Chinese get
to know you.
- Be very patient. It takes a considerable amount of time and is bound
up with enormous bureaucracy.
- The Chinese see foreigners as representatives of their company rather
than as individuals.
- Rank is extremely important in business relationships and you must
keep rank differences in mind when communicating.
- Gender bias is nonexistent in business.
- Never lose sight of the fact that communication is official, especially
in dealing with someone of higher rank. Treating them too informally,
especially in front of their peers, may well ruin a potential deal.
- The Chinese prefer face-to-face meetings rather than written or
telephonic communication.
- Meals and social events are not the place for business discussions.
There is a demarcation between business and socializing in China,
so try to be careful not to intertwine the two.
- Do not point when speaking.
- To point do not use your index finger, use an open palm.
- It is considered improper to put your hand in your mouth.
- Do not take the Chinese nod for agreement; it's only a sign that
they are listening attentively.
There are some useful Chinese expressions easy
to learn:
| Hello |
Ni Hao |
| Thank you |
Xie Xie |
| Cheers (toast) |
Gan pei |
| Goodbye |
Zai jian |
Business Meeting Etiquette:
- Appointments are necessary and, if possible, should be made between
one-to-two months in advance, preferably in writing.
- If you do not have a contact within the company, use an intermediary
to arrange a formal introduction. Once the introduction has been made,
you should provide the company with information about your company
and what you want to accomplish at the meeting.
- You should arrive at meetings on time or slightly early. The Chinese
view punctuality as a virtue. Arriving late is an insult and could
negatively affect your relationship
- Pay great attention to the agenda as each Chinese participant has
his or her own agenda that they will attempt to introduce.
- Send an agenda before the meeting so your Chinese colleagues have
the chance to meet with any technical experts prior to the meeting.
Discuss the agenda with your translator/intermediary prior to submission.
- Each participant will take an opportunity to dominate the floor
for lengthy periods without appearing to say very much of anything
that actually contributes to the meeting. Be patient and listen. There
could be subtle messages being transmitted that would assist you in
allaying fears of on-going association.
- Meetings require patience. Mobile phones ring frequently and conversations
tend to be boisterous. Never ask the Chinese to turn off their mobile
phones as this causes you both to lose face.
- Guests are generally escorted to their seats, which are in descending
order of rank. Senior people generally sit opposite senior people
from the other side.
- It is imperative that you bring your own interpreter, especially
if you plan to discuss legal or extremely technical concepts as you
can brief the interpreter prior to the meeting.
- Written material should be available in both English and Chinese,
using simplified characters. Be very careful about what is written.
Make absolutely certain that written translations are accurate and
cannot be misinterpreted.
- Visual aids are useful in large meetings and should only be done
with black type on white background. Colours have special meanings
and if you are not careful, your colour choice could work against
you.
- Presentations should be detailed and factual and focus on long-term
benefits. Be prepared for the presentation to be a challenge.
- Women should avoid high heels and short sleeved blouses. The Chinese
frown on women who display too much.
- Men and women wear jeans. However, jeans are not acceptable for
business meetings.
- Revealing clothing for women is considered offensive to Chinese
businessmen.
- Do not use large hand movements. The Chinese do not speak with their
hands. Your movements may be distracting to your host.
Business Negotiation:
- Only senior members of the negotiating team will speak. Designate
the most senior person in your group as your spokesman for the introductory
functions.
- Business negotiations occur at a slow pace.
- Be prepared for the agenda to become a jumping off point for other
discussions.
- Chinese are non-confrontational. They will not overtly say 'no',
they will say 'they will think about it' or 'they will see'.
- Chinese negotiations are process oriented. They want to determine
if relationships can develop to a stage where both parties are comfortable
doing business with the other.
- Decisions may take a long time, as they require careful review and
consideration.
- Under no circumstances should you lose your temper or you will lose
face and irrevocably damage your relationship.
- Do not use high-pressure tactics. You might find yourself outmanoeuvred.
- Business is hierarchical. Decisions are unlikely to be made during
the meetings you attend.
- The Chinese are shrewd negotiators.
- Your starting price should leave room for negotiation.
- At the end of a meeting, you are expected to leave before your Chinese
counterparts.
Dress Etiquette:
Dress styles are changing quickly in today's China. Most City Chinese
will wear a western style suit and tie for a business and even less formal
meeting. It is best for foreigners to dress formally. Women should avoid
low necklines and hemlines that rise above the knee. Jewellery will be
noticed; modest gold jewellery and a quality watch and shoes will count
in your favour. However, avoid overly expensive jewellery or showy ornaments.
- Business attire is conservative and unpretentious.
- Men should wear dark coloured, conservative business suits.
- Women should wear conservative business suits or dresses with a
high neckline.
- Women should wear flat shoes or shoes with very low heels.
- Bright colours should be avoided.
Business Cards:
Business cards, called name cards ("Ming Pian") by the Chinese, are presented
when everyone first meets. They should be given and received with both
hands. Although common practice in most western countries, never slide
your card on the table to your Chinese contact, it is viewed as extremely
disrespectful. Never toss or "deal" your business card across the table,
as this is also considered extremely impolite. Receive a business card
with both hands and scan it immediately. Then lay the card in front of
you on the table. It is demeaning to put someone's card directly into
your pocket without looking at it first.
- Business cards are exchanged after the initial introduction.
- Have one side of your business card translated into Chinese using
simplified Chinese characters that are printed in gold ink since gold
is an auspicious colour.
- Your business card should include your title. If your company is
the oldest or largest in your country, that fact should be on your
card as well.
- Hold the card in both hands when offering it, Chinese side facing
the recipient.
- Examine a business card before putting it on the table next to you
or in a business card case.
- Never write on someone's card unless so directed and please try
not to drop the card as this is considered very inauspicious to the
business relationship.
Facts and Statistics
Location: Eastern Asia bordering
Afghanistan 76 km, Bhutan 470 km, Burma 2,185 km, India 3,380 km, Kazakhstan
1,533 km, North Korea 1,416 km, Kyrgyzstan 858 km, Laos 423 km, Mongolia
4,677 km, Nepal 1,236 km, Pakistan 523 km, Russia (northeast) 3,605 km,
Russia (northwest) 40 km, Tajikistan 414 km, Vietnam 1,281 km
Capital City: Beijing - coordinates:
39 56 N, 116 24 E. In spite of its vast size, all of China falls within
one time zone.
Time difference: Standard time
zone: +8 hours ahead of London UK and +13 hours ahead of Washington, DC.
Climate: The weather is incredibly
diverse; tropical in south to sub arctic in north.
Population: 1,321,851,888(over
1.3 billion) (July 2007 EST.) China is the most populous nation on earth.
Area - comparative: Most western
websites claim that China is slightly smaller than the US although most
Chinese websites claim that China is slightly larger than the US, hmmm,
heard this story before, mines bigger than yours. I really do not know
which is true but they are roughly about the same give or take.
Ethnic groups: Han Chinese 91.9%,
Zhuang, Uygur, Hui, Yi, Tibetan, Miao, Manchu, Mongol, Buyi, Korean, and
other nationalities 8.1%.
Religions: Daoism (Taoist), Buddhist,
Muslim 1%-2%, Christian 3%-4%.
Government: Communist state.
Flag of China:
China's national flag was adopted in September 1949. This flag was first
flown in Tiananmen Square on October 1, 1949 the day of the founding of
the People's Republic of China. The rectangular flag has a red field with
five golden-yellow stars (each with five points) in the upper left corner.
The star on the left is larger than the other four. The red colour of
the flag symbolizes revolution. The large star symbolizes the Communist
Party (which rules China) and the smaller stars represent the people of
China.
Map of China
Geography - note: Fourth largest
country in the world after Russia, Canada, and US; Mount Everest is on
the border with Nepal and is the world's tallest peak.
Chinese calendars:
Chinese New Year (according to the lunar calendar) starts on the New Moon (23rd January 2012) after the Winter Solstice and is celebrated by millions of people from every corner of the world. Chinese New Year signifies new beginnings and a fresh start. At a social level, this event is very much a family affair, a time of reunion and thanksgiving.
Chinese New Year falls on January 23rd 2012 (Lunar calendar) 15:39 China, (23rd United Kingdom 07:39) (Wednesday 2nd Los Angeles USA 23:39) (Thursday 3rd Barcelona 08:39) due to time differences, Chinese New Year will fall what appears to be a day early in USA & Canada (British Columbia, Vancouver). We have created a Chinese New Year world time converter 2012 table to assist you in getting the exact time and date in your country. This is the date you celebrate the Chinese New Year with Ang Pow, fireworks etc. The date that you would spend placing your cures and enhancers 2012 in Feng Shui is always the day after (January 24th 2012).
The Lunar Chinese New Year Day (January 23rd 2012) is very different from the Solar (Hsia) New Year Day (January 24th 2012).
The Chinese Language
Standard Chinese or Mandarin (Putonghua, based on the Beijing dialect),
Yue (Cantonese), Wu (Shanghaiese), Minbei (Fuzhou), Minnan (Hokkien-Taiwanese),
Xiang, Gan, Hakka dialects, minority languages (see Ethnic groups entry)
Country name:
Conventional long form: People's
Republic of China
Conventional short form: China
Local long form: Zhonghua Renmin
Gongheguo
Local short form: Zhongguo
Abbreviation: PRC
Are you really prepared for 2012?
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